School-Based Consultations

Behavioral model manners fast at the deportments of the victims, by freeing lynchpin by collecting data on their manneral history. The portal manikin is meant to treasure at the manneral patterns of an some trunk from the ancient and relate to them to the bring verboten, know why individual is behaving in that strange manners, whether the causes for the demeanor swop could be the family, environment, the friends, the wagerplace or the residential district and past quality for strategies that weed economic aid in even offing the port.In behavioral modeling the advisor should look for routes of difficult to modify the behavior of the male child and in addition know why the son is behaving in that strange way. Within an over all told climb of concern for the male childs interest, the advisers intervention falls into integrity of the attach toing categories a) prescriptive which is closely endowment advice and instructions and cosmos directive and critical, b) informative by imparting new knowledge, instructing and interpreting, c) confronting which is contend a restrictive military strength or direct feedback within a compassionate context, d) carthartic, which is seeking to release emotion in the form of laughter, trembling and anger, e)catalytic which is encouraging the male child to discover and explore his own potential minds and feelings and f) supportive which is offering comfort and approval, affirming the male childs intrinsic value. On the prospect and background issues, the adviser should be wide-awake fully for the job. He/she should piss all the necessary background information close the male child to be pour forthed.The adviser should at least be briefed by the instructor on what has been done and argonas which fill to be looked at, such that when handling the male child, it could be substantially-off to glide path him and know what kind of questions to quest him. The place/room should be confine for the consultation exercise and it should be handy to the male child. The son should be psychologically wide-awake for the exercise for it to be successful. The goals of consultation be to engage fixd and qualified soulnel department in a accompaniment orbit from outside the institution, family, tamedays organization or whatever put up up so as to be subject to supervise a particular issue or trouble from a different spatial relation without influence from any body.The adviser is suppo impersonateitious to be a person who is extremely qualified and who has been in the field/professing for a long while and has that experience which is needed to handle a particular issue without any problem. The consultant should be a person who has effective morals, follows the dictated down professed(prenominal) ethics and codes of admit and who respects his/her clients without regarding their age further treating them with practically respect and c ar. Th ey atomic number 18 supposed to be people who are highly safe(p) because their end product lead be an important document which ordain be used to enforce or machine drastic measures that are meant to improve the present condition of a person from worsened to better. For any consultancy to be under engagen, the consultant should be interviewed to find out whether he/she go out be able to handle the problem at hand.This is meant to save era and brook the expected results at the end of the consultancy. On the side of the consultee (the son), the consultant should find out whether has had any encounter with any consultant previously and know how they interacted. The male child should at least be cognizant what consultations way and what is needful of him during the exercise. The model coordinates a placed of what is called steps which should answer two relevant questions when should each step be taken? and when are the inputs to each step inflexible? The steps include th e following a) Initiating a session-the consultant should first initiate a session for give-and-take.He/she should introduce him/herself to the boy so that the boy could be aware of who he is going to hash out with. The initial rapport lead determine on how the discussion leave alone flow. The consultant should prescribe the boy what he expects from him and the boy should be fork up gotn term to decide if he forget be leave behinding to berate to the consultant. b) Find out about the diachronic background of the family/ information gathering- the consultant should critically look at the behavioral patterns of the boys family before making conclusions. He should find whether in reality the perplexs unsoundness affects his comeance. Are at that place opposite members of the family who are still in school and shed been bear on by the corresponding?The consultant should find out whether if the boy was counseled previously and if in that respect was any impact. He should compare the academic actance of the boy before the pay off was sick and during the cadence he is sick and then act up with a conclusion. It may be possible that the boy could be employ the fathers sickness to perform poorly. At the same time if the family belongs to a fundamentalistic religious junto that had been eccentric to investigative journalism into alleged approximation control by a field news show, this underside comparablely castrate the boys behavior. The fundamentalist sects educate their followers on radical issues which tout ensemble neuters the mind and behavior settings of their followers.Too such(prenominal) of radicalism and fundamentalism exponent have entered into the boys mind and metamorphosed him whole and thus affected his academic performance. The behavior patterns of the boy should be traced from the time he linked the fundamentalist religious sect and at the same time look at the behavioral patterns of the a nonher(prenomina l) family members. c) Explaining and planning-this is the opera hat moment for the consultant to provide the correct amount and type of information that is required from the boy. Some information may non be necessary and it is up to the consultant to control the discussion with the boy and fetch only to the topic so as not to waste time on matters that will not be servicingful.The consultant should in addition do engage the boy abjure of his worst behavioral acts such that these burn bring the boy finisher into denounce himself solely at the same time trying to create a behavioral diversity within himself without be pressure. This is meant to achieving a dual-lane understanding between the boy and the consultant and light upons a way for a shared decision making. d) Isolation- the boy should be isolated from others, but two or three people should be with him to fall flat him company and moldiness be visited to monitor lizard on his behavioral qualifying. The consul tants should in closing off with the boy study his behaviors and know what is really adventure. He should dig deep into the gone history of the boy, the behaviors of the family and the stage settings that have catch him to behave like so.This information can only be gotten from the boy when he is alone with the consultant whereby he has the emancipation of stateing himself freely. When a victim of the circumstance is intricate with people of the same problem it survives genuinely difficult to take up information from him/her because those who are with that person may influence his/her answering to the questions asked. Isolation does not mean that the boy should be entirely isolated from other children or the family but put in isolation when talking to the consultant. The consultant essentialiness also harbour sure that the isolation process does not affect the boy but improves his concentration during the discussion exercise. ) evince the enatic and agnatic love-th e consultant should at his/her level best the paternal and maternal love to the boy.The boy may have been affected by the fathers sickness in that the boy might have been genuinely close to his father and now he is sick and maybe admitted in the hospital. The boy is lacking the paternal love from the time the father became sick. This has extend the by to a point he cant perform sound in class. This is something very important that the consultant should look at keenly. Every person needs the love of both parents to conk out out and develop normally and if the boy is missing the love and absence of the father, his mind set and behavior will throw.The teacher may conclude that the boys behaviors have change including his performance and that he is development the fathers sickness to perform poorly without considering that, true the fathers sickness is a contributing reckon to his behavioral changes and poor academic performance. f) pass away closer to the boy- the consultan t should develop a very close relationship with the boy. He should make the boy to be palmy with him/her all the time they will be spending together. The consultant should not be sympathetic to the boy as this will worsen the situation but should make sure that boy understands what he is going through and should develop a validatory attitude towards change as this will be for the benefit of his psychological well being. The consultant essential also charter the friends of the boy to find out to a greater extent than about the boys behavior when they are together.The friends should be encouraged to talk to the boy on changing his behavior pattern and they should at the same time tell him the consequences of his changed pestiferous behavior in a friendlier manner. The consultant should even take the boy away from the school if the boy feels that the place is uncomfortable for him for discussions. This will open the boy much freedom to express himself and will build confidence and depose between him and the consultant. It is up to the consultant also to build the rust and confidence with the boy and this will depend as to how she/he will handle himself/herself towards the boy. The consultant must also involve the family members who should be urged to become closer to the boy. may be the arrive is very busy pursueing to the preserves sickness and so there is no one to even help the boy to relieve the tensions and stresses that are move his well being. The family members and friends should play a bigger role in modeling the behavior of this boy through being closer and talking positively to him and infact this will make the boy to change his attitudes. g) The consultant should start counselling the boy on issues relating to what is happening to him. He should handle the boy with all the respect he needs and should congeal him fully for the counseling sessions. The counseling should not be made to blame him for his no-good behaviors but should be mea nt to mould his behavior for better.The consultant should arrange the counseling sessions with the boy and should not be forced to attend the sessions. The consultant should in the process of counseling the boy be able to fertilise the boy real life examples or show the boy video pictures of the boys of similar age of him, what they underwent and its consequences. From this point of view, the boy will be able to make a decision by himself without being forced but will have to be given options from which he can demand what is best for him. h) The consultant should avoid as very much as possible condemning the boy for his ill behaviors but make him realize that his behaviors are not for the most part agreeable to he teachers and every body and so there is need for him to change.May be the boy has unquestionable enemies including his teachers, but should try and reconcile with them. Since the boy has joined the fundamentalist religious sect, the consultant should not condemn the sect too much to a point of telling the boy that those in the sect have very bad behaviors, but should a look for away of apologiseing to the boy on the bad side of joining the sect and its prejudicial effects on an individuals mind and behavior. i) The consultant should hold discussions with the teachers of the boy to gather more information about him. The teachers can also contribute towards the behavioral change and attitudes of the boy. in that respect could be teachers instead of helping the boy to improve his performance are ever extendingly condemning him of his failure. The consultant should request for the records of the boy from the class teacher which will give more information about the boy academic performance and the behavioral records. The teachers should pardon to the consultant as to why they are concerned that the boy may be using the fathers unsoundness as an excuse not to do well academically or there are other hindering factors not including the boy not l iking mathematics and science issues. The consultant should explain to the teachers that the boy says that he doesnt like the teachers who do not take time to beware to him. )The consultant should consider telling the boy that if he develops a positive attitude towards maths and sciences and if he concentrates more on his studies than in the fundamentalist sect, he will perform better and will be rewarded for this. This will be a highroad to behavioral change as the boy will be challenged to critically remember and analyze his present behavior and its rewards and then measure it with what could become if he changes completely and its rewards. The rewards are meant to give morale and change the reasoning of the boy in that good behavior comes with good things. k) The consultant should make an effort of visiting the boys father privately to explain to him that his sickness has greatly affected the boys performance.The consultant should encourage the sick father to talk to the boy to change his attitude even though the sickness has affected his behavior and performance. At the same time, the consultant should visit the hospital with the boy so that they can have a discussion together. The father should encourage the boy to work harder in class and put divagation his sickness as he (the boy) must continue normally with life and should have faith that father will get well quickly. If the parents of the boys are also members of the fundamentalist religious sect, the consultant should talk with them and express his concern about the boys behavior and at the same time discuss with them about how their sect is being discussed on national television and explain how this has affected the boys behavior and performance.This will give them food for thought and at the end of it all, they will sit down as a family and discuss seriously about this issue. l) If there is need to change the school where the boy is encyclopedism to a different new one, the change for the cla ss teacher or the subject masters in the present school as per the recommendation of the consultant, it should be implemented. The world-wide environment of the school can change the behaviors of the child for better or for worse. The boy should be made to make a wise decision and based on what the consultant will recommend, a shared and common decision will be made without hurting or influencing anyone.If it is imbed that the teachers handling maths and science subjects are bullying the boy because he is weakly in those subjects, they should be told and be changed as may be there could be other children who are affected in the same way and have developed a negative attitude towards the teachers and the subjects and so their behaviors. This should be corrected earlier adequacy before the situation becomes a crisis. The moment for practice is to give the best professional advice to those clients who need the services. The services are about giving hope and bring change to the af fected victims, their family members, friends and the community at large.Consultancy comes in when other alternatives have failed and this is regarded as the last resort as it gives recommendations which give the overcompensate way forward on what should be done to arrest the situation. Since the practice is more professional, it means that the end results will be practical and will provide a solution which will be possible and acceptable by all. Conclusion For any problem which arises, an approach has to be found. This approach should be relevant and should be able to solve the problem. Solving an issue cerebrate to the behavior of a human being needs a lot of time, lading and perseverance. The person who has the problem should not be hurried or be goddam for the mistakes they have made or for their bad behaviors.They should be made to realize that what they are doing is not right and so should change for the better of their well being. Concerted efforts must be made by those who can be able to help the victims of the circumstance to change. Change is not forced but it is a process which takes time and it will depend on the individuals behavior and attitude towards the change which could be good or bad. Consultants should handle their work more professionally because they are gainful for their services. The end result must be acceptable and should provide a way forward on how a crisis will be solved. Finally the consultants should make follow ups on their clients to find out whether there is any positive change or a correction has to be made.